Unlock Your Radiant,
Authentic Sexuality

How would your life change if you took a year-long deep dive into feminist healing, empowerment, and authentic sexual liberation?

You want the sweetness AND the passion

…you’re wanting a safe space to explore, feel more connected, and learn about your authentic sexual self and desires. You want to feel alive and free in your body, express your desires openly, and connect with yourself and your partner (if you have one) like never before–to experience deep, authentic pleasure and intimacy. You know that unlocking your truest sexual self is key to feeling whole and vibrant, but something is holding you back…

Maybe you’re…

  • Feeling shame or unhealed trauma that’s holding you back from true intimacy
  • Experiencing a lack of desire or feeling out of sync with your partner
  • Struggling to embrace or feel comfortable in your own body
  • Ready to break free from feeling stuck, ashamed, or dissatisfied with your sexuality

Imagine how embracing your sexuality could transform your life:

  • Discover and own your desires so you can ask for—and get—what you want
  • Build confidence to express yourself authentically and set healthy, fulfilling boundaries
  • Experience the most pleasurable and connected sex you’ve ever had
  • Enjoy a new sense of wholeness, creativity, and confidence that spills over into all areas of your life

Introducing: HONEY+FIRE

Honey+Fire is a holistic, deep-dive online program that empowers you to transform your sex life and embrace your full, radiantly alive self.

You can do Honey+Fire from anywhere in the world. It’s for women, non-binary, and gender-expansive people who are ready to break free from shame, embrace their sexuality, and find new confidence and pleasure.

You’ll spend a year examining your sexuality, healing the parts that hurt, learning new skills and approaches, deepening your self-intimacy, showing up in new ways in your relationships and nurturing the sexual flame ❤️‍🔥 that is already inside of you.

It is a rare opportunity to build erotic authenticity so that you can stop pretending to be something you are not, and stop pretending to like people and things that you really don’t. This is about owning who you are as a fully inhabited sexual being, and watching the effects of that inner knowing and confidence ripple out into every other aspect of your life.

If you’re ready to break free from limitations in your intimate life and embrace a vibrant, intimate, deeply satisfying sexuality, Honey+Fire is for you.

Sexuality is a core part of who we are…

…and embracing it alongside spirituality is key to achieving true wholeness and freedom. Personal empowerment means acknowledging our sacred, often hidden selves; without accepting our sexuality, we miss out on fully realizing our humanity. Yet, many struggle with shame, feeling isolated and uncertain about how to pursue a healthy, guilt-free sexual life due to limited spaces that support this essential exploration.

Can you imagine who you would be if the deep, sacred, primal hunger inside of you was fed?💥🍯

  • Maybe you want permission to feel your real desires and feel confident expressing them.
  • You want to feel whole and connected to your own body, and in your relationships.
  • You want to heal the parts of your sexual history that have negatively impacted your whole life.
  • You want it to be different and you don’t want to be alone with it anymore. You want the community around you that will support the sexual becoming that is yours.

There is no other liberating power in the world that matches that of our sexuality

Maybe you have been shamed about your body, your desires, your attractions, your pleasure, how you do sex, or any other aspect of your sexuality, shame you have carried your whole life. (Sadly, most people have.)

You do not have to keep carrying it. You can break through and heal it like thousands of others have. Many people never break through these heavy burdens, and they take the shame with them to the end of their days…

That is a huge part of the work we do in Honey+Fire, but that is only the tip of the hot flame.🔥

“I attended Fire Woman Retreat in 2019, and I was in awe of the teachings and community A’magine had created. A’magine’s presence was powerful, deeply compassionate, warm, and highly intuitive. I spent the next two years immersed in A’magine’s programs. The sexual education, community, rituals, fellowship, and opportunities to celebrate were so abundant, I honestly didn’t want it to end. I look back on my time working with A’magine as an unforgettable, deeply meaningful period of my life. A’magine balances integrity, humility, and cultural sensitivity with confidence, expertise and badassery, which shines through in everything she does.”

“As a psychotherapist who’s been exposed to diverse therapeutic environments, facilitators, and populations, I can say with full confidence that the space A’magine has created for this important work is revolutionary and unlike any other that exists.

Anjuli Gonzalez, AMFT, Musician & Therapist

Hey, I’m A’magine!

I help creative, socially-conscious people like you embrace their sexuality and cultivate confidence and fulfillment in life. I designed Honey+Fire to be the most direct path to sexual freedom and joy. That’s why it includes comprehensive, actionable resources and support to help you positively transform your intimate life.

In a moment like this, when state power and the unauthorized authority of the internet are targeting women, queer and trans people and trying to control us through our sexuality, this work is life-affirming and politically necessary. Embracing our holistic sexuality in a community is a revolutionary act in a cultural time when our sexuality is being manipulated, controlled, and demeaned, and when many of us feel deeply at risk of further harm. We need community more than ever.

If you are wondering what gave me license to teach something like this, I earned my BA in writing and literature at UCSB’s College of Creative Studies, and my Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at NYU in the 1990s. I went on to train with people like Betty Dodson, Barbara Carrellas, Midori and many other sexuality mentors. I am trained in Shadow Work and several other healing modalities. I have published two books with Penguin Random House: Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. I am also director and producer of the award-winning documentary, At Your Cervix.

As a long-time organizer, with over 25 years of experience teaching sexuality, I’ve had the joy of helping thousands of people connect with their true selves and heal from past hurts. I know this work ripples from within to effect change in the outside world. The more of us who are fully empowered erotic beings, the more we can be fortified to create the world we envision. It’s truly a privilege to open doors for your healing and education and to walk alongside you on your sexual journey.

Hey, I’m A’magine!

I help creative, socially-conscious people like you embrace their sexuality and cultivate confidence and fulfillment in life. I designed Honey+Fire to be the most direct path to sexual freedom and joy. That’s why it includes comprehensive, actionable resources and support to help you positively transform your intimate life.

In a moment like this, when state power and the unauthorized authority of the internet are targeting women, queer and trans people and trying to control us through our sexuality, this work is life-affirming and politically necessary. Embracing our holistic sexuality in a community is a revolutionary act in a cultural time when our sexuality is being manipulated, controlled, and demeaned, and when many of us feel deeply at risk of further harm. We need community more than ever.

If you are wondering what gave me license to teach something like this, I earned my BA in writing and literature at UCSB’s College of Creative Studies, and my Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at NYU in the 1990s. I went on to train with people like Betty Dodson, Barbara Carrellas, Midori and many other sexuality mentors. I am trained in Shadow Work and several other healing modalities. I have published two books with Penguin Random House: Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. I am also director and producer of the award-winning documentary, At Your Cervix.

As a long-time organizer, with over 25 years of experience teaching sexuality, I’ve had the joy of helping thousands of people connect with their true selves and heal from past hurts. I know this work ripples from within to effect change in the outside world. The more of us who are fully empowered erotic beings, the more we can be fortified to create the world we envision. It’s truly a privilege to open doors for your healing and education and to walk alongside you on your sexual journey.

A Unique Path to Sexual Empowerment

The 9 elements I teach in Honey+Fire are the elements that emerged through my decades of work in sexuality education as I supported people—mostly women and queer folks—across the globe. My unique framework of holistic sexual empowerment is laid out in my book, Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence.

Honey+Fire takes that work to a deeper place within an intentional and facilitated community—our HoneyHive—where we can be witnessed, we can realize we are not alone, we can share the parts of ourselves that we are uncovering and we can feel nurtured and supported to be courageous on our path.

Why do people choose to do this work?

There are so many reasons people walk through the gate into this unknown, mysterious journey for which we were never given a map nor a mentor.

🍯Honey+Fire🔥 is that map—a blueprint for sexual freedom and wholeness, intimate connection and true joy.

This work changes lives.

I can say with certainty that no one who has come through my programs and showed up for this powerful process has been unchanged in all these years. It is truly breathtaking to watch.

I believe in YOUR capacity to make powerful choices, to take new risks, and to stand for yourself and your true desires. I am here to support you to make that a reality.

Amagine embodies the work that she teaches. They live and breathe it. Witnessing how they walk in the world enabled me to trust them and the process. During our sessions A’magine had an unwavering presence. There was also much joy, laughter and humor throughout. This I learned is such a big part of healing.

This work truly, without a doubt changed the trajectory of my life. I saw more clearly than ever how I was playing small and how I often identified as the victim. I experienced A’magine as embodied, empowered and unapologetic about who they are and how they show up in the world. This gave me the courage to step more fully into my authentic self, even the parts of myself I wasn’t sure I could love.

“I no longer feel so deeply alone and scared. My physical body and mental body has undergone a tremendous amount of healing. I once experienced debilitating symptoms from PTSD. I can joyfully report that is no longer my reality. I feel connected with my partner, family, friends and community. I feel connected to the greater circle of humanity, I now feel worthy of being included. All in all I am the most grounded and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life.

Brooke Laura

Amagine embodies the work that she teaches. They live and breathe it. Witnessing how they walk in the world enabled me to trust them and the process. During our sessions A’magine had an unwavering presence. There was also much joy, laughter and humor throughout. This I learned is such a big part of healing.

This work truly, without a doubt changed the trajectory of my life. I saw more clearly than ever how I was playing small and how I often identified as the victim. I experienced A’magine as embodied, empowered and unapologetic about who they are and how they show up in the world. This gave me the courage to step more fully into my authentic self, even the parts of myself I wasn’t sure I could love.

“I no longer feel so deeply alone and scared. My physical body and mental body has undergone a tremendous amount of healing. I once experienced debilitating symptoms from PTSD. I can joyfully report that is no longer my reality. I feel connected with my partner, family, friends and community. I feel connected to the greater circle of humanity, I now feel worthy of being included. All in all I am the most grounded and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life.

Brooke Laura

Get ready for the deepest, sweetest, wildest ride of your life.

How Does Honey+Fire Work?

You’ll take on one element at a time, diving deep through the teachings into shifting, healing or upleveling that part of yourself, with homeplay assignments, worksheets and personalized rituals that offer you a guided framework to explore the element in your own sexual and intimate life.

A’magine will guide you on weekly live calls for twelve weeks to support you in the work, offer coaching and guidance for the things you are questioning or struggling with, and help you go to the next level.

A’magine will continue to offer live calls each month outside of the 12-intensive weeks, to continue to support you to grow and expand as you deepen your journey.

You’ll hear from other participants on the calls, and just hearing their stories will assist you to see the issues that show up for you in a new light, to have deep compassion for yourself and to keep going!

You will experience a sex-positive community of women, gender expansive, and queer folks who are earnestly doing their self-growth work, ready to support you, witness your journey and celebrate your evolution as they share their journey with you.

We heal and grow in community.

How Does Honey+Fire Work?

Focused Growth on Individual Elements: The program takes a step-by-step approach, focusing on one element at a time. You’ll engage in teachings designed to help you shift, heal, or elevate specific aspects of yourself.

Guided Framework for Exploration: You’ll receive homeplay assignments, worksheets, and personalized rituals, providing a structured way to explore each element in your sexual and intimate life.

Weekly Live Support: For 12 weeks, A’magine hosts weekly live calls to offer coaching, guidance, and support, helping you address challenges and reach the next level.

Ongoing Monthly Guidance: After the 12-week intensive, A’magine continues to provide monthly live calls to help you maintain momentum and deepen your growth.

Community Insights and Stories: During the live calls, you’ll hear from other participants, whose shared experiences will inspire compassion for yourself and encourage progress.

Inclusive, Sex-Positive Community: You’ll be part of a supportive group of women, gender-expansive, and queer individuals who are committed to their self-growth journeys, ready to witness and celebrate your evolution alongside their own.

We heal and grow in community.

What are we going to cover in Honey+Fire?

In the first module we are planting seeds and sparking new things inside of us.💥

  • Core Energy Model of Sexuality
  • VOICE as a source of sexual POWER
  • Making Room for the Sexual Self You’ve been Waiting for

You will start by owning your voice in a new way, because so many of us have lost our sexual voice. Empowerment starts there.

You will learn about the Core Energy Model of Sexuality, the internal and external sexual voice, and the 10 things you may need to release to free up your sexual energy. Module 1 will start with a special meditation that will assist you in re-imagining your sexuality.

In the third module, we are spreading the nectar from flower to flower, stoking the flame, burning bright.🌺🐝

  • Learn Your Erotic Language
  • Flirtation is Play
  • Seduction, Role Play & MasterDates

You will learn to give yourself permission to be the sexual person you truly are, to like what you like, desire what you desire, and live an authentic sexual life.

You’ll remember how to play, because as a serious adult you sometimes lose that part of you that loves to be in the freedom of play, to know your own wildness, and to allow yourself to be delighted and surprised by new experiences that bring you both power and pleasure.

In Module 2 we are building heat…our seeds are germinating all that will flourish through this work as we move to deeper places and brighten our flames.🔥

  • Becoming Emotionally Powerful in Sex
  • Radically Accept your Body
  • Develop your Ability to Feel Pleasure

You will start to dig deep and ask “How do I get in my own way, and what do I need to do to get out of the way?!”

You will examine your vulnerabilities and limitations (we ALLLL have them), and learn to create new meaning so you do not get stuck in old patterns that were developed from a sexually unhealthy, sex-negative, or immature place.

In the fourth module, we bring it all together and learn to come home to the self, to own all parts of ourselves, sexual and otherwise.

  • How to Stop Giving away your Power
  • Coming Home to the Self
  • Using your Fire to Ignite your Life

You’ll learn what it means to fully inhabit the hearth within you, that always has a candle lit to help you find your way back. As you light the fire of your sexual energy, you learn to build it in purposeful and vibrant ways that make you feel alive.

What are we going to cover in Honey+Fire?

In the first module we are planting seeds and sparking new things inside of us.💥

  • Core Energy Model of Sexuality
  • VOICE as a source of sexual POWER
  • Making Room for the Sexual Self You’ve been Waiting for

You will start by owning your voice in a new way, because so many of us have lost our sexual voice. Empowerment starts there.

You will learn about the Core Energy Model of Sexuality, the internal and external sexual voice, and the 10 things you may need to release to free up your sexual energy. Module 1 will start with a special meditation that will assist you in re-imagining your sexuality.

In Module 2 we are building heat…our seeds are germinating all that will flourish through this work as we move to deeper places and brighten our flames.🔥

  • Becoming Emotionally Powerful in Sex
  • Radically Accept your Body
  • Develop your Ability to Feel Pleasure

You will start to dig deep and ask “How do I get in my own way, and what do I need to do to get out of the way?!”

You will examine your vulnerabilities and limitations (we ALLLL have them), and learn to create new meaning so you do not get stuck in old patterns that were developed from a sexually unhealthy, sex-negative, or immature place.

In the third module, we are spreading the nectar from flower to flower, stoking the flame, burning bright.🌺🐝

  • Learn Your Erotic Language
  • Flirtation is Play
  • Seduction, Role Play & MasterDates

You will learn to give yourself permission to be the sexual person you truly are, to like what you like, desire what you desire, and live an authentic sexual life.

You’ll remember how to play, because as a serious adult you sometimes lose that part of you that loves to be in the freedom of play, to know your own wildness, and to allow yourself to be delighted and surprised by new experiences that bring you both power and pleasure.

In the fourth module, we bring it all together and learn to come home to the self, to own all parts of ourselves, sexual and otherwise.

  • How to Stop Giving away your Power
  • Coming Home to the Self
  • Using your Fire to Ignite your Life

You’ll learn what it means to fully inhabit the hearth within you, that always has a candle lit to help you find your way back. As you light the fire of your sexual energy, you learn to build it in purposeful and vibrant ways that make you feel alive.

Glenda Garces, mother & Financial Services Professional

I had buried my trauma for years. Being a single mom, I prioritized work and my young children at the time. Whenever pain or shame would peek its head, I would numb with either work or alcohol. I had kept my trauma in silence for so long that my body was completely stiff and wrapped in shame. I longed to give voice to my experience and free my body from the shame I had carried for over 20 years. I felt alienated and alone in my trauma journey.

“I had never experienced community until I joined Fire Woman > Honey+Fire. I felt at ease with sharing my experience because other women were sharing so freely. I felt at ease, and it gave me permission to give voice to my experience. Through A’magine’s work I gave permission and voice to the curious young girl that lives in me. I am no longer ashamed of laughing out loud or asking a question. The journey I am in is the most amazing part, but the best part is that I am not alone and I get to do this in community.”

Glenda Garces,
mother & Financial Services professional

I had buried my trauma for years. Being a single mom, I prioritized work and my young children at the time. Whenever pain or shame would peek its head, I would numb with either work or alcohol. I had kept my trauma in silence for so long that my body was completely stiff and wrapped in shame. I longed to give voice to my experience and free my body from the shame I had carried for over 20 years. I felt alienated and alone in my trauma journey.

“I had never experienced community until I joined Fire Woman > Honey+Fire. I felt at ease with sharing my experience because other women were sharing so freely. I felt at ease, and it gave me permission to give voice to my experience. Through A’magine’s work I gave permission and voice to the curious young girl that lives in me. I am no longer ashamed of laughing out loud or asking a question. The journey I am in is the most amazing part, but the best part is that I am not alone and I get to do this in community.”

Receive these BONUSES when you register now:

Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Relationships

A 6-part audio course designed to help you unlock genuine confidence across all areas of your life. Through a personalized assessment, you’ll discover your unique “Confidence Type(s)” and learn how to leverage them effectively, building strength in relationships, career, money and personal goals. This course provides actionable strategies to elevate your confidence and create more empowered interactions in every part of your life.

The Handy Guide: A Handsex Video Workshop
🍆 🐈‍⬛ 🍑

A hands-on workshop that explores techniques for enhancing pleasure with your hands. Covering stimulation, communication, and ergonomics, this course provides practical skills to boost intimacy, whether as a main event or a creative option. Perfect for all genders, it includes live demos and a supportive environment to master this often-overlooked source of connection and pleasure.

A ticket to the 2025 Best Sexual Year Yet
New Year’s Ritual

You are invited to attend my 14th annual live virtual ritual and workshop in January 2025, to set in motion the consciousness and intention to make this your best sexual year yet. This year we will focus on how we can work towards both individual sexual empowerment and collective sexual liberation for all. Our sexual freedom depends on each other. Our sexuality and gender are being used against us and the only way to neutralize that is to create and move towards a liberatory vision of sexuality as a people, as a world.

Receive these BONUSES when you register now:

Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Relationships

A 6-part audio course designed to help you unlock genuine confidence across all areas of your life. Through a personalized assessment, you’ll discover your unique “Confidence Type(s)” and learn how to leverage them effectively, building strength in relationships, career, money and personal goals. This course provides actionable strategies to elevate your confidence and create more empowered interactions in every part of your life.

The Handy Guide: A Handsex Video Workshop
🍆 🐈‍⬛ 🍑

A hands-on workshop that explores techniques for enhancing pleasure with your hands. Covering stimulation, communication, and ergonomics, this course provides practical skills to boost intimacy, whether as a main event or a creative option. Perfect for all genders, it includes live demos and a supportive environment to master this often-overlooked source of connection and pleasure.

A ticket to the 2025
Best Sexual Year Yet
New Year’s Ritual

You are invited to attend my 14th annual live virtual ritual and workshop in January 2025, to set in motion the consciousness and intention to make this your best sexual year yet. This year we will focus on how we can work towards both individual sexual empowerment and collective sexual liberation for all. Our sexual freedom depends on each other. Our sexuality and gender are being used against us and the only way to neutralize that is to create and move towards a liberatory vision of sexuality as a people, as a world.

“I wanted to be a spiritually grown, emotionally intact person, even when turned-on. I was blocked by shame, abandonment, and trauma. Also, I felt insecure and like I didn’t have the skills or know-how to enter the love making world as confidently as I wanted. I chose to work with A’magine because I knew I needed a SACRED SPIRITUAL sex education and Healing experience. Their work literally took me through the skills I wanted to have during sex explicitly in turned-on states. I got to practice getting turned-on and speaking up. I got to clear shame and shut-down and a pattern of apologizing for being who I am. I got to be celebrated by a community of people who helped me believe I could be who I am and be truly loved and wanted me as just that. This work helped clear a lot of pelvic pain. I unlocked my ability to bring forth my sacred sexuality teachings in an integrated and whole way.

A’magine’s deep spiritual practice and container, ritualized space for healing, and no-bullshit, down-to-earth, straight talking demeanor felt real and approachable. Their kindness and tenderness in the hurt places, and their experience and work with shadow work and alchemical understanding of healing and transmutation were so important. My life massively changed from the work.

Sophia Wise One, Podcaster, Soundhealer, Non-Profit Co-Director
Sophia Wise One, Podcaster, Soundhealer, Non-Profit Co-Director

A’magine’s deep spiritual practice and container, ritualized space for healing, and no-bullshit, down-to-earth, straight talking demeanor felt real and approachable. Their kindness and tenderness in the hurt places, and their experience and work with shadow work and alchemical understanding of healing and transmutation were so important. My life massively changed from the work.

“I wanted to be a spiritually grown, emotionally intact person, even when turned-on. I was blocked by shame, abandonment, and trauma. Also, I felt insecure and like I didn’t have the skills or know-how to enter the love making world as confidently as I wanted. I chose to work with A’magine because I knew I needed a SACRED SPIRITUAL sex education and Healing experience. Their work literally took me through the skills I wanted to have during sex explicitly in turned-on states. I got to practice getting turned-on and speaking up. I got to clear shame and shut-down and a pattern of apologizing for being who I am. I got to be celebrated by a community of people who helped me believe I could be who I am and be truly loved and wanted me as just that. This work helped clear a lot of pelvic pain. I unlocked my ability to bring forth my sacred sexuality teachings in an integrated and whole way.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I do this program if I am single?

YES! Absolutely! We love when single folks show up to this work for themselves rather than because another person or circumstance prompted it. That is a magical place to be, to care enough about your own sexuality that you are doing it for YOU, not for someone else. It will impact your relationships beyond your sexual/intimate ones too. There is no way this work won’t impact the things in your life you care about if you show up to it. Ultimately, we must work on our own sexuality in order to have what we want in any future relationship, so why not now? We welcome all solo travelers!

Am I too old? Is it too late for me to do this?

It is never too late to step into your journey to sexual liberation. Many women have shown up on this path in their 60s and 70s, and while they wish they had found this opportunity sooner, they are no longer willing to live a life where they never truly experience what it is to be wholly human and to fully inhabit their sexuality.

This is your journey. You can do it at any stage of your life. In fact, the intergenerational nature of this community is one of its greatest strengths. We value all of the people who comprise the HoneyHive and come to learn from one another. We welcome our elders and all of your wisdom.

What if my partner is not supportive or doesn’t want to change?

Some people’s partners get threatened when they choose to do this work, because they think it means there is something wrong with or not enough about THEM. But the work is about YOU, not your partner. Of course it will impact your relationship—hopefully in very positive ways. 

Ultimately, if your partner does not want to change or be supportive of you, it will be up to you to figure out how you want to integrate them with your ever-blooming self. Their choices do not need to hold you back. Most people’s partners come around once they see how much the work is positively impacting their beloved in a wonderfully expansive way. They generally benefit from it! Give it time and trust that alignment can happen.

I’m afraid that if I do this work, me and my partner may break up…how do I manage this process so I don’t lose my relationship?

I’m not going to B.S. you. Some relationships will end through this work…but that is because the person doing the work is choosing themselves, sometimes for the first time in their life. When we grow, our biggest relations will either grow with us, or they won’t. They will come along for the ride, even if they are not doing their own deep work, or they will resist it and may ultimately not be aligned with the person their partner is becoming. That is not a problem, it’s clarity! Better to know that and move on, making room for the one who WILL be aligned. (longevity, benefit of breaking up the old stagnation and allowing for your relationship to be reborn and move past the old junk.) learning to let love in means letting love in…healing yourself means healing your relationship.

Nobody likes breaking up. It’s a hard choice and it’s hard to know when is the right time. We have tracked this metric and we know there is a 50/50 chance…some will go home and bring the honey and fire to their relationship and it will shift, and some will go make a new home elsewhere. Either way, this work will give you the clarity you need.

What if I am just too broken, too traumatized? What if I can’t be helped?

No one is too broken to grow. Everyone can be free and whole, and everyone has the right and ability to heal.
Many people have had very traumatic experiences with sex, including sexual assault, harassment and child sexual abuse. Many of us have been rejected for who we are sexually. Many of us have lost friends and even our religion or community because of judgments about our sexuality. Some of us have experienced great intimate betrayals.
These experiences are hard and they hurt. We need to heal them. We need space for that. Not every space is the right space. And sometimes it’s about timing.
The vast majority of people who have done this work over the last ten years have histories/herstories of sexual trauma. We expect it to show up and be a part of the healing process.
What is important, is that the trauma is not super raw when people to step into this program. Honey+Fire is not designed for the acute aftermath of trauma. It is designed for the later stages of healing, after someone has worked on healing their sexuality in a therapeutic context. If you have questions about this, feel free to reach out to us directly. We are happy to help you determine if the time is right.

What if I have never had sex? Does this even apply to me?

Even if you have never had sex, or never desired sex, we all have a sexuality, and almost none of us got good sexuality education. Your sexuality is a combination of your experience in your body, pleasure, desire, emotions, identity, communication, boundaries and how you know yourself. Sex is only one part of sexuality. 

Anyone who wants to deepen their relationship to themselves and know their sexuality in a meaningful way will benefit greatly from this program. If there are things that have been in the way of you having the sexual life you imagine or know you want, then the tools in Honey+Fire will support you in creating that. If you are content to not share sexual experiences with others, but want to sex up yourself, that is here for you too. It is understandable that sexual inexperience can create feelings of insecurity, or even inadequacy in the over-sexualized world we live in. You will be welcomed and held no matter your sexual experience.

Is this program for me if I am not queer or polyamorous?

You do not need to have a particular sexual identity to benefit from this program. Many people who do the program are queer, kinky and/or polyamorous and all are welcome. We also have many people who have no experience with those sexually marginalized communities/identities.

Honey+Fire is designed for: women, regardless of their sexual orientation; queer, non-binary or gender expansive folks who were AFAB (assigned female at birth); transmasc folks and transgender women and femmes.

This work is not for cis men regardless of identity, and we thank you for respecting this space.

What if I can’t make live calls?

All calls are recorded and added to the portal. While you will not get live coaching from A’magine if you are not on a call live, you will get to listen to the calls and benefit from them.

We also offer our calls at different times to account for people in different parts of the world/time zones. We don’t ever want someone to be left out because it’s always the middle of the night!

Got more questions? We got answers.

Drop us an email at hello@amaginenation.com

Let’s fill ourselves with the sweetness and the passion, and immerse in Honey and Fire.