Reconnect With the Vibrant, Sexual Self
That Has Been Waiting Inside You
Honey+Fire is a 9-month holistic journey for women, femmes, and queer folks ready to break free from shame, heal old wounds, and claim their sexual freedom in community.
You’ve Spent Years Serving Others. Now It’s Time for You.…
You spent your younger years trying to figure out what you wanted, navigating healing, seeking safety, and often feeling totally alone in your sexual journey. You searched for the right partner, the perfect orgasm, the deep connection you craved.
Now, in midlife, you have the time, space, and wisdom to meet yourself in a new way. You are ready for both safety and passion. You want the fullest experience of your sexual self—with or without a partner.
But something is holding you back. Maybe you’re:
- Feeling shame or unhealed trauma that blocks you from having true intimacy.
- Experiencing low desire or feeling out of sync with your partner.
- Struggling to embrace your body as it changes with age and hormonal fluctuations.
- Furious about the sexual violence in the world and its cost to women and queer people.
- Tired of pretending to like things you don’t, or suppressing desires you’re afraid to name.
You know that unlocking your truest sexual self is key to feeling whole, joyful, and vibrant. But you wonder if it’s ever going to happen.
It can. And it starts now.
Introducing: HONEY+FIRE
We spend our whole lives being told who to be as sexual beings. Honey+Fire is a rare opportunity to build a sexuality that is truly yours. You will examine your history, heal the parts that hurt, learn new skills, deepen self-intimacy, and nurture the sexual flame already inside you.
This is not just about sex. It’s about owning who you are as a fully inhabited sexual being and watching that confidence ripple out into every area of your life.
Most women do this work in midlife—because finally, they have the power to choose themselves.
“The more whole we are as sexual beings, the more fulfilled we are as human beings.” ~A’magine
WHY MIDLIFE?
Midlife is the time when most women are finally ready to turn their attention to the parts of themselves that have been buried, scary, or too big to handle. Hormones shift. Desires change. Consciousness expands.
Many leave relationships that no longer serve them and find excitement in discovering who they are sexually now, outside of the old molds we were never meant to fit into.
There is a sense that the clock is ticking. It’s now or never.
Menopause Is Not the End. It’s Clarity. Many women worry that hormonal changes mean the end of desire. Our participants tell a different story. One woman shared, “I’m on the other side of menopause where I am so much more clear… can feel myself and resource myself once again.” In midlife, we often shed the noise of earlier years and find a deeper, wiser connection to our bodies. You are not broken. You are becoming.
Sexuality is a core part of who we are. The patriarchy knows this—that’s why it uses shame, legislation, and misinformation to control us. Ye old patriarchs are afraid of its power. A sexually empowered generation of women and queer folks would change the face of the planet. And they know that.
It is a radical act to choose a journey of sexual empowerment and liberation.
Can you imagine who you would be if the deep, sacred, primal hunger inside you was fed? If you stopped turning away from the desires that keep tugging at you.
Revolutionary Work, Guided by Expertise
“Honey & Fire was a profoundly rich and transformative experience… This journey became so much more than an exploration of sexuality—it was an invitation to unravel limiting beliefs, deepen my relationship with myself, and remember the fullness of who I am. I left feeling more embodied, more liberated, and more deeply devoted to the woman I am becoming.”
What are we going to cover in Honey+Fire?
- Core Energy Model of Sexuality
- VOICE as a source of sexual POWER
- Making Room for the Sexual Self You’ve been Waiting for
You will start by owning your voice in a new way, because so many of us have lost our sexual voice. Empowerment starts there.
You will learn about the Core Energy Model of Sexuality, the internal and external sexual voice, and the 10 things you may need to release to free up your sexual energy. Module 1 will start with a special meditation that will assist you in re-imagining your sexuality.
- Learn Your Erotic Language
- Flirtation is Play
- Seduction, Role Play & MasterDates
You will learn to give yourself permission to be the sexual person you truly are, to like what you like, desire what you desire, and live an authentic sexual life.
You’ll remember how to play, because as a serious adult you sometimes lose that part of you that loves to be in the freedom of play, to know your own wildness, and to allow yourself to be delighted and surprised by new experiences that bring you both power and pleasure.
- Becoming Emotionally Powerful in Sex
- Radically Accept your Body
- Develop your Ability to Feel Pleasure
You will start to dig deep and ask “How do I get in my own way, and what do I need to do to get out of the way?!”
You will examine your vulnerabilities and limitations (we ALLLL have them), and learn to create new meaning so you do not get stuck in old patterns that were developed from a sexually unhealthy, sex-negative, or immature place.
In the fourth module, we bring it all together and learn to come home to the self, to own all parts of ourselves, sexual and otherwise.
- How to Stop Giving away your Power
- Coming Home to the Self
- Using your Fire to Ignite your Life
You’ll learn what it means to fully inhabit the hearth within you, that always has a candle lit to help you find your way back. As you light the fire of your sexual energy, you learn to build it in purposeful and vibrant ways that make you feel alive and allow you to make a bigger contribution to the world.
Receive these BONUSES when you register now:
Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Relationships
A 6-part audio course designed to help you unlock genuine confidence across all areas of your life. Through a personalized assessment, you’ll discover your unique “Confidence Type(s)” and learn how to leverage them effectively, building strength in relationships, career, money and personal goals. This course provides actionable strategies to elevate your confidence and create more empowered interactions in every part of your life.
The Handy Guide: A Handsex Video Workshop
🍆 🐈⬛ 🍑
A hands-on workshop that explores techniques for enhancing pleasure with your hands. Covering stimulation, communication, and ergonomics, this course provides practical skills to boost intimacy, whether as a main event or a creative option. Perfect for all genders, it includes live demos and a supportive environment to master this often-overlooked source of connection and pleasure for all sexual anatomies.
Hey, I’m A’magine!
I help creative, socially-conscious people like you embrace their sexuality and cultivate confidence and fulfillment in life. I designed Honey+Fire to be the most direct path to sexual freedom and joy. That’s why it includes comprehensive, actionable resources and support to help you positively transform your intimate life.
In a moment like this, when state power and the unauthorized authority of the internet are targeting women, queer and trans people and trying to control us through our sexuality, this work is life-affirming and politically necessary. Embracing our holistic sexuality in a community is a revolutionary act in a cultural time when our sexuality is being manipulated, controlled, and demeaned, and when many of us feel deeply at risk of further harm. We need community more than ever.
If you are wondering what gave me license to teach something like this, I earned my BA in writing and literature at UCSB’s College of Creative Studies, and my Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at NYU in the 1990s. I went on to train with people like Betty Dodson, Barbara Carrellas, Midori and many other sexuality mentors. I am trained in Shadow Work and several other healing modalities. I have published two books with Penguin Random House: Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. I am also director and producer of the award-winning documentary, At Your Cervix.
As a long-time organizer, with over 25 years of experience teaching sexuality, I’ve had the joy of helping thousands of people connect with their true selves and heal from past hurts. I know this work ripples from within to effect change in the outside world. The more of us who are fully empowered erotic beings, the more we can be fortified to create the world we envision. It’s truly a privilege to open doors for your healing and education and to walk alongside you on your sexual journey.
Get ready for the deepest, sweetest, wildest ride of your life.
“I wanted to be a spiritually grown, emotionally intact person, even when turned-on. I was blocked by shame, abandonment, and trauma. Also, I felt insecure and like I didn’t have the skills or know-how to enter the love making world as confidently as I wanted. I chose to work with A’magine because I knew I needed a SACRED SPIRITUAL sex education and Healing experience. Their work literally took me through the skills I wanted to have during sex explicitly in turned-on states. I got to practice getting turned-on and speaking up. I got to clear shame and shut-down and a pattern of apologizing for being who I am. I got to be celebrated by a community of people who helped me believe I could be who I am and be truly loved and wanted me as just that. This work helped clear a lot of pelvic pain. I unlocked my ability to bring forth my sacred sexuality teachings in an integrated and whole way.
“A’magine’s deep spiritual practice and container, ritualized space for healing, and no-bullshit, down-to-earth, straight talking demeanor felt real and approachable. Their kindness and tenderness in the hurt places, and their experience and work with shadow work and alchemical understanding of healing and transmutation were so important. My life massively changed from the work.”
Hey, I’m A’magine!
I help creative, socially-conscious people like you embrace their sexuality and cultivate confidence and fulfillment in life. I designed Honey+Fire to be the most direct path to sexual freedom and joy. That’s why it includes comprehensive, actionable resources and support to help you positively transform your intimate life.
In a moment like this, when state power and the unauthorized authority of the internet are targeting women, queer and trans people and trying to control us through our sexuality, this work is life-affirming and politically necessary. Embracing our holistic sexuality in a community is a revolutionary act in a cultural time when our sexuality is being manipulated, controlled, and demeaned, and when many of us feel deeply at risk of further harm. We need community more than ever.
If you are wondering what gave me license to teach something like this, I earned my BA in writing and literature at UCSB’s College of Creative Studies, and my Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at NYU in the 1990s. I went on to train with people like Betty Dodson, Barbara Carrellas, Midori and many other sexuality mentors. I am trained in Shadow Work and several other healing modalities. I have published two books with Penguin Random House: Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. I am also director and producer of the award-winning documentary, At Your Cervix.
As a long-time organizer, with over 25 years of experience teaching sexuality, I’ve had the joy of helping thousands of people connect with their true selves and heal from past hurts. I know this work ripples from within to effect change in the outside world. The more of us who are fully empowered erotic beings, the more we can be fortified to create the world we envision. It’s truly a privilege to open doors for your healing and education and to walk alongside you on your sexual journey.
“Amagine embodies the work that she teaches. They live and breathe it. Witnessing how they walk in the world enabled me to trust them and the process. During our sessions A’magine had an unwavering presence. There was also much joy, laughter and humor throughout. This I learned is such a big part of healing.
“This work truly, without a doubt changed the trajectory of my life. I saw more clearly than ever how I was playing small and how I often identified as the victim. I experienced A’magine as embodied, empowered and unapologetic about who they are and how they show up in the world. This gave me the courage to step more fully into my authentic self, even the parts of myself I wasn’t sure I could love.
“I no longer feel so deeply alone and scared. My physical body and mental body has undergone a tremendous amount of healing. I once experienced debilitating symptoms from PTSD. I can joyfully report that is no longer my reality. I feel connected with my partner, family, friends and community. I feel connected to the greater circle of humanity, I now feel worthy of being included. All in all I am the most grounded and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life.”
Brooke Laura
How Does Honey+Fire Work?
Focused Growth on Individual Elements: The program takes a step-by-step approach, focusing on one element at a time. You’ll engage in teachings designed to help you shift, heal, or elevate specific aspects of yourself.
Guided Framework for Exploration: You’ll receive homeplay assignments, worksheets, and personalized rituals, providing a structured way to explore each element in your sexual and intimate life.
Weekly Live Support: For 12 weeks, A’magine hosts weekly live calls to offer coaching, guidance, and support, helping you address challenges and reach the next level.
Ongoing Monthly Guidance: After the 12-week intensive, A’magine continues to provide monthly live calls to help you maintain momentum and deepen your growth.
Community Insights and Stories: During the live calls, you’ll hear from other participants, whose shared experiences will inspire compassion for yourself and encourage progress.
Inclusive, Sex-Positive Community: You’ll be part of a supportive group of women, gender-expansive, and queer individuals who are committed to their self-growth journeys, ready to witness and celebrate your evolution alongside their own.
We heal and grow in community.
What are we going to cover in Honey+Fire?
In the first module we are planting seeds and sparking new things inside of us.💥
- Core Energy Model of Sexuality
- VOICE as a source of sexual POWER
- Making Room for the Sexual Self You’ve been Waiting for
You will start by owning your voice in a new way, because so many of us have lost our sexual voice. Empowerment starts there.
You will learn about the Core Energy Model of Sexuality, the internal and external sexual voice, and the 10 things you may need to release to free up your sexual energy. Module 1 will start with a special meditation that will assist you in re-imagining your sexuality.
In Module 2 we are building heat…our seeds are germinating all that will flourish through this work as we move to deeper places and brighten our flames.🔥
- Becoming Emotionally Powerful in Sex
- Radically Accept your Body
- Develop your Ability to Feel Pleasure
You will start to dig deep and ask “How do I get in my own way, and what do I need to do to get out of the way?!”
You will examine your vulnerabilities and limitations (we ALLLL have them), and learn to create new meaning so you do not get stuck in old patterns that were developed from a sexually unhealthy, sex-negative, or immature place.
In the third module, we are spreading the nectar from flower to flower, stoking the flame, burning bright.🌺🐝
- Learn Your Erotic Language
- Flirtation is Play
- Seduction, Role Play & MasterDates
You will learn to give yourself permission to be the sexual person you truly are, to like what you like, desire what you desire, and live an authentic sexual life.
You’ll remember how to play, because as a serious adult you sometimes lose that part of you that loves to be in the freedom of play, to know your own wildness, and to allow yourself to be delighted and surprised by new experiences that bring you both power and pleasure.
In the fourth module, we bring it all together and learn to come home to the self, to own all parts of ourselves, sexual and otherwise.
- How to Stop Giving away your Power
- Coming Home to the Self
- Using your Fire to Ignite your Life
You’ll learn what it means to fully inhabit the hearth within you, that always has a candle lit to help you find your way back. As you light the fire of your sexual energy, you learn to build it in purposeful and vibrant ways that make you feel alive.
mother & Financial Services professional
“I had buried my trauma for years. Being a single mom, I prioritized work and my young children at the time. Whenever pain or shame would peek its head, I would numb with either work or alcohol. I had kept my trauma in silence for so long that my body was completely stiff and wrapped in shame. I longed to give voice to my experience and free my body from the shame I had carried for over 20 years. I felt alienated and alone in my trauma journey.
“I had never experienced community until I joined Fire Woman > Honey+Fire. I felt at ease with sharing my experience because other women were sharing so freely. I felt at ease, and it gave me permission to give voice to my experience. Through A’magine’s work I gave permission and voice to the curious young girl that lives in me. I am no longer ashamed of laughing out loud or asking a question. The journey I am in is the most amazing part, but the best part is that I am not alone and I get to do this in community.”
Receive these BONUSES when you register now:
Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Relationships
A 6-part audio course designed to help you unlock genuine confidence across all areas of your life. Through a personalized assessment, you’ll discover your unique “Confidence Type(s)” and learn how to leverage them effectively, building strength in relationships, career, money and personal goals. This course provides actionable strategies to elevate your confidence and create more empowered interactions in every part of your life.
The Handy Guide: A Handsex Video Workshop
🍆 🐈⬛ 🍑
A hands-on workshop that explores techniques for enhancing pleasure with your hands. Covering stimulation, communication, and ergonomics, this course provides practical skills to boost intimacy, whether as a main event or a creative option. Perfect for all genders, it includes live demos and a supportive environment to master this often-overlooked source of connection and pleasure.
“A’magine’s deep spiritual practice and container, ritualized space for healing, and no-bullshit, down-to-earth, straight talking demeanor felt real and approachable. Their kindness and tenderness in the hurt places, and their experience and work with shadow work and alchemical understanding of healing and transmutation were so important. My life massively changed from the work.”
“I wanted to be a spiritually grown, emotionally intact person, even when turned-on. I was blocked by shame, abandonment, and trauma. Also, I felt insecure and like I didn’t have the skills or know-how to enter the love making world as confidently as I wanted. I chose to work with A’magine because I knew I needed a SACRED SPIRITUAL sex education and Healing experience. Their work literally took me through the skills I wanted to have during sex explicitly in turned-on states. I got to practice getting turned-on and speaking up. I got to clear shame and shut-down and a pattern of apologizing for being who I am. I got to be celebrated by a community of people who helped me believe I could be who I am and be truly loved and wanted me as just that. This work helped clear a lot of pelvic pain. I unlocked my ability to bring forth my sacred sexuality teachings in an integrated and whole way.
Frequently Asked Questions
When does the program start?
Can I do this program if I am single?
YES! Absolutely! We love when single folks show up to this work for themselves rather than because another person or circumstance prompted it. That is a magical place to be, to care enough about your own sexuality that you are doing it for YOU, not for someone else. It will impact your relationships beyond your sexual/intimate ones too. There is no way this work won’t impact the things in your life you care about if you show up to it. Ultimately, we must work on our own sexuality in order to have what we want in any future relationship, so why not now? We welcome all solo travelers!
Am I too old? Is it too late for me to do this?
It is never too late to step into your journey to sexual liberation. Many women have shown up on this path in their 60s and 70s, and while they wish they had found this opportunity sooner, they are no longer willing to live a life where they never truly experience what it is to be wholly human and to fully inhabit their sexuality.
This is your journey. You can do it at any stage of your life. In fact, the intergenerational nature of this community is one of its greatest strengths. We value all of the people who comprise the HoneyHive and come to learn from one another. We welcome our elders and all of your wisdom.
What if my partner is not supportive or doesn’t want to change?
Some people’s partners get threatened when they choose to do this work, because they think it means there is something wrong with or not enough about THEM. But the work is about YOU, not your partner. Of course it will impact your relationship—hopefully in very positive ways.
Ultimately, if your partner does not want to change or be supportive of you, it will be up to you to figure out how you want to integrate them with your ever-blooming self. Their choices do not need to hold you back. Most people’s partners come around once they see how much the work is positively impacting their beloved in a wonderfully expansive way. They generally benefit from it! Give it time and trust that alignment can happen.
I’m afraid that if I do this work, me and my partner may break up…how do I manage this process so I don’t lose my relationship?
I’m not going to B.S. you. Some relationships will end through this work…but that is because the person doing the work is choosing themselves, sometimes for the first time in their life. When we grow, our biggest relations will either grow with us, or they won’t. They will come along for the ride, even if they are not doing their own deep work, or they will resist it and may ultimately not be aligned with the person their partner is becoming. That is not a problem, it’s clarity! Better to know that and move on, making room for the one who WILL be aligned. (longevity, benefit of breaking up the old stagnation and allowing for your relationship to be reborn and move past the old junk.) learning to let love in means letting love in…healing yourself means healing your relationship.
Nobody likes breaking up. It’s a hard choice and it’s hard to know when is the right time. We have tracked this metric and we know there is a 50/50 chance…some will go home and bring the honey and fire to their relationship and it will shift, and some will go make a new home elsewhere. Either way, this work will give you the clarity you need.
What if I am just too broken, too traumatized? What if I can’t be helped?
No one is too broken to grow. Everyone can be free and whole, and everyone has the right and ability to heal.
Many people have had very traumatic experiences with sex, including sexual assault, harassment and child sexual abuse. Many of us have been rejected for who we are sexually. Many of us have lost friends and even our religion or community because of judgments about our sexuality. Some of us have experienced great intimate betrayals.
These experiences are hard and they hurt. We need to heal them. We need space for that. Not every space is the right space. And sometimes it’s about timing.
The vast majority of people who have done this work over the last ten years have histories/herstories of sexual trauma. We expect it to show up and be a part of the healing process.
What is important, is that the trauma is not super raw when people to step into this program. Honey+Fire is not designed for the acute aftermath of trauma. It is designed for the later stages of healing, after someone has worked on healing their sexuality in a therapeutic context. If you have questions about this, feel free to reach out to us directly. We are happy to help you determine if the time is right.
What if I have never had sex? Does this even apply to me?
Even if you have never had sex, or never desired sex, we all have a sexuality, and almost none of us got good sexuality education. Your sexuality is a combination of your experience in your body, pleasure, desire, emotions, identity, communication, boundaries and how you know yourself. Sex is only one part of sexuality.
Anyone who wants to deepen their relationship to themselves and know their sexuality in a meaningful way will benefit greatly from this program. If there are things that have been in the way of you having the sexual life you imagine or know you want, then the tools in Honey+Fire will support you in creating that. If you are content to not share sexual experiences with others, but want to sex up yourself, that is here for you too. It is understandable that sexual inexperience can create feelings of insecurity, or even inadequacy in the over-sexualized world we live in. You will be welcomed and held no matter your sexual experience.
Is this program for me if I am not queer or polyamorous?
You do not need to have a particular sexual identity to benefit from this program. Many people who do the program are queer, kinky and/or polyamorous and all are welcome. We also have many people who have no experience with those sexually marginalized communities/identities.
Honey+Fire is designed for: women, regardless of their sexual orientation; queer, non-binary or gender expansive folks who were AFAB (assigned female at birth); transmasc folks and transgender women and femmes.
This work is not for cis men regardless of identity, and we thank you for respecting this space.
What if I can’t make live calls?
A’magine schedules calls based on the availability of current participants, and times shift to accommodate different time zones as much as possible. You’ll always be able to join the next call that works for you, and you’ll never miss out on the teachings since every call is saved for you to revisit.
Got more questions? We got answers.
Drop us an email at hello@amaginenation.com
Let’s fill ourselves with the sweetness and the passion, and immerse in Honey and Fire.
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